Aunt Jemima and Uncle Ben
Listen to this article read aloud: Your browser does not support the audio element. When I was a child, I was taught that my mother's best friend was my "Aunt" Kate. There was no blood relationship, it was just a polite way for a child to address an adult who, although not a family member, had a close relationship to the child. "Aunt" and "Uncle" were words used to express an honorary or affectionate relationship. In antebellum times, "house servants" often cared for the children. It would only be natural that there would be an affectionate bond between the child and the caregiver. It was polite and acceptable to use "Aunt" and "Uncle" when referring to these servants. The words were meant as an honor, but that does not change the fact that the "Aunt" or "Uncle" were often slaves! To me, the words "aunt" and "uncle" are words that conno...